Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Funding for Crafts Workshop

Here’s an update on the funding request that I had put forward in my September 25th blog  ….  We got full funding!!!  Thank you to all who were kind and generous in their contributions to this unique project.  You are my best supporters and what I achieve here in Moldova is spurred by not only your financial support, but just as much by your moral and emotional support.  You have no idea!


Some of our beneficiaries outside the Singerei residential
center for disabled people which will house one workshop


Part of their training includes
entrepreneurship education should
they want to start their own business
The project’s purpose is to develop vocational skills in people with special needs, and launch them in their new craft work by employing them in a special workshop.  The grant will fund custom equipment and supplies specific for their crafts.  The beneficiaries will be able to hone their skills and their products will be sold in the local markets earning them some independent income.  The ultimate goal is to sustain this process with a continued flow of people with disabilities who will acquire marketable vocational skills and secure employment in similar workshops and/or establish their own small businesses within their villages.  This pilot project is well on its way towards achieving the first graduating class of ABLED students!  The crafts workshop is expected to open around January/February time frame.




Working in groups to develop business ideas while
also training them to work together in teams
As part of the training, each beneficiary is given an aptitude test to determine where his/her skills, talents, and interests lie.  Then the counselor can assist them to select the appropriate vocations that would build on their strengths, and suit their abilities and interests.  Altogether during this pilot project, we've had 60 people with disabilities go through the program at two different Centers, one in Singerei (Dezdna pictured here) and one in Balti.  For the craft workshops, we expect about 18 of those will proceed with apprenticeships there.


Forum of leaders from the community
coalescing to forge the project plan
Early on, our project had buy-in from a number of stakeholders with a vested interest in a successful outcome from this initiative.  They ranged from city halls of various affected towns, municipal agencies, local employment development agencies, other NGOs associated with social services for the disabled, and even local employers.  They all recognize that it is to the benefit of society at large to be able to afford a means of livelihood for people with disabilities so they can add to economic growth in their communities.



I will periodically post on this blog information on our progress over the next several months.  Thanks again for all you do to help me be a more effective volunteer here in Moldova!  It's impossible for me to do this work without you!

Barbara
2 December 2014



                                             

Thursday, September 25, 2014

Funding a crafts workshop for people with special needs

Buna ziua din Moldova!!  This blog posting is focused on raising money to help people with special needs gain employment in order for them to support themselves and their families.  

People with special needs are just like other human beings.  Some have a disability that is visible to others – such as blindness, confinement to a wheelchair, deafness, etc.  You might feel sorry for them, but they are the lucky ones.  Many other handicapped people have much more severe conditions and require constant care and attention.  The lucky ones, however, have one thing that is not disabled …. they have their brains! 


          
Their brains are normal and healthy, fully capable of learning and applying new-found knowledge.  With some additional tools and techniques, they can demonstrate a full range of aptitudes and talents.  Unfortunately, they have had to overcome various obstacles that get in the way of their progress – from outright prejudice to shameful neglect.  The good news is Moldova has passed legislation that supports and protects the rights of disabled people.  (The term "disabled" is the standard term used in Moldova and in its documentation.)
     

My partner organization has launched a project to train people with special needs in entrepreneurship, vocational training, and life skills.  One of our key goals is to equip crafts studios/workshops where disabled people can acquire/hone their creative talents to produce arts and crafts for sale.  These facilities offer them a dedicated place to practice their skills, create quality products, and sell them in the marketplace.  To that end, we've set up a project site on Peace Corps' website to solicit contributions from families, friends, and other interested parties. The Soros Foundation is supplying the majority of the project funding, but we're just shy about $3,500 to ensure full provisions for our workshop.  



Working on crafts at a center for disabled

 All donations are fully tax-deductible to the extent of the federal and local laws.  The full description of the project and details on how to make a donation can be found on this link:





Traditional institutions for people with special needs do not capitalize on their strengths nor do they nurture their capabilities. This project strives to change that paradigm.  I'm a firm believer that disabled people, while they may need a helping hand, also need an enabling hand because they do have abilities beyond their apparent disabilities.  They just want to make a decent living and live independently if they can.  We're helping them to realize those goals.



If this project speaks to you and you can help out, please click on the link above and make a donation in any amount.  I'd be very grateful!!  If you've already made a donation, thank you so much!  Mulţumesc!

Barbara Jue
Peace Corps Volunteer
Small Enterprise Development
Republic of Moldova

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Nunta din Moldova

Buna ziua din Balti!!  Yes, it's been a long dry spell since my last blog!  But this posting deserves its own space.  I had the privilege of being invited to a Moldovan wedding celebration on July 26.  And what a celebration it was!

Our very own Adil, a fellow PCV from the business development sector, met and fell in love with Cristina, a beautiful Moldovan woman in his work site Falesti.  She works in a nearby department and speaks some English so they hit it off - lucky Adil!

The actual marriage was on the previous Thursday usually attended by close family and friends held in the orthodox church.  The big party for the masses took place on Saturday starting at 7 PM and was designated to last until 3:00 AM, and that was for the first phase of the celebration.  This is a common practice; it's not surprising if guests stay for 1-2 days partying!

As in many cultures, Moldovan weddings are packed with traditions and rituals.  Contemporary western customs are also included, like the removal of the bride's garter and tossing it to a handful of bachelors.  A Moldovan wedding is one of the most expensive investments for a family - couples can save for this one event for years.  Sometimes they even borrow money from banks to cover the costs of the gala affair.  Wedding gown shops, wedding halls, banquet restaurants, and photographers conduct lucrative businesses all focused on that one life-altering event - the wedding.




Greeting guests with wine and colaci


Fortunately, another tradition for the newlyweds is presenting them with monetary gifts.  Cash seems to be the most acceptable gift form, collected through a table-by-table visitation process.  The couple is accompanied by their năşi, a married couple who serves as spiritual counselors for the husband and wife during their marriage, similar to godparents.  Adil and Cristina's năşi were her sister and brother-in-law.  They visit with all the guests, who toast the couple's good fortune.  The guests in turn offer money along with their blessings, oftentimes declaring the amount of money and visibly depositing it into a collection bowl.  We provided monetary gifts, of course, but contained within cards as the American practice is more discreet (and perhaps less embarrassing).  


Collecting gifts of money
Singer of Romanian songs
Colorful dancers















Group dancing is a big custom at these events, and went on before food was served, during, and after.  A dance/song troupe of Moldovans performed folk-type songs as well as more popular fare (the latter on a playlist)  They entertained throughout the entire time (8 hours) without much of a break.  They were fabulous!  Singing Romanian/Moldovan songs and dancing folk dances separately and with the guests - they tirelessly kept the guests participating in activity after activity.  The locals all enjoy dancing the "hora", circle dances where specific dance steps didn't need to be followed just as long as you could keep up with the circle.  And you didn't need a partner!  Everyone was having fun but the ulterior motive for the energetic dancing??  I claim it's because the guests have to keep eating the mountains of food brought to the tables.  Round 1 of eating, round 1 of dancing - round 2 of eating, round 2 of dancing, and so on.  It was an effective strategy!



Now let's talk about the food --- there must have been at least 20 separate courses (meaning dishes).  In other words, food was in huge abundance, also traditional in a wedding feast.  It's not a fit feast unless piles of food are left on the table!  What sorts of dishes were served?  There were some familiar dishes that are found at every masa (party) like racitori, sarmale, and pan-fried battered chicken.  However, we did have some other dishes that were new to me - smoked salmon, shrimp(!), sauteed mushrooms wrapped in a pasta noodle sac, little colored jello squares in yogurt, to name a few.  Everything was delicious - this restaurant was top-notch!  Drinks were also ample - champagne, red and white wine, cognac from Tiraspol (Transnistria), sodas and mineral water.  Not only do the host families toast the happy couple and the invited guests (meaning those toasted are expected to drink), but the guests also go around to other tables and toast one another.  Normally cognac is drunk in one gulp from a shot glass (wine sometimes too from a wine glass), and then the glass is refilled right away.

Heading skyward

Getting ready to launch
A beautiful modern custom is to send small hot air lanterns floating into the sky.  Altogether four such lanterns were staged, two red and two white heart-shaped.  Floating into the night sky, they were wondrous to behold!

Leah, Adil, Cristina, Paden
Carl and Beni
Nasi and their children, maid of honor along with us
    
The Americans with Cristina

Us lucky guests from Peace Corps included Max, Kate, Carl, Beni, Paden, Leah, Arun, and Sydney, plus me.   Janet, our country director was also included, and Tim from USAID.  Paden was the best man and Beni was the photographer but she took a break now and then.  
  

Peace Corps gals with Cristina


Cristina wins!
 Colaci is a circular braided bread loaf which is offered at many Moldovan celebrations and at religious services.  Guests are offered chunks of this bread and wine when they first enter the reception and throughout the banquet.  Colaci is given to the couple and they each take one end and try to tear it into two parts.  Whoever gets the larger part, connotes the dominant one in the partnership, or so the tale goes.







Another wonderful custom acknowledges that the couple is starting their own household.  Towards the end of the party, Adil and Cristina sat on a chair and her relatives and close friends bestowed various gifts by opening them up and draping them on the happy couple.  These included towels, linens, blankets, and other domestic wares which surrounded them.  Both of them were showing signs of fatigue by this time - can't blame them at all!  My own feet were killing me!


We finally took our departure around 3:00 AM, summoning a taxi to drive us back to Balti where we arrived home at 4.  What an absolutely splendid time was had by all!  The host families and the guests had welcomed us with open arms, shared their bounty, danced and laughed with us, and we felt truly at home.


Next I hope to go to a baby christening ....

Love to all my family and friends....  Barbara

Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Memorial Easter (Pastele Blajinilor)

A week after the regular Easter holidays, Moldovans celebrate the Easter for the Dead, a commemoration of the lives of their deceased loved ones.  Families gather at the cemetery where a party atmosphere prevails as food, wine, and small gifts are spread out on the grave sites and on tables alongside.  While there is some solemnity especially for recently deceased relatives, all in all, family members drink their home brewed beverages and eat their traditional party food, all the while sharing stories/memories of their departed relatives.  It's all very colorful and pleasurable, not at all maudlin.  I'm reminded of the Chinese custom to visit their families' grave sites as well - Ching Ming which occurs in the third lunar month.  I noted a lot of similarities between the two cultures in terms of this particular observance.

We visited the cemetery on April 27, the one where Emilia's late husband is buried and some of his other relatives.  His son picked us up and helped us cart several bags of food, gift bags for the relatives, and other commemorative tokens for the grave sites.   Arriving at the cemetery we met lines of cars trying to enter the parking area, and throngs of people, walking in procession into the cemetery, laden with flowers and food baskets, making their way to their loved ones' grave sites.  Each family plot has fencing around it which makes the space more private for these gatherings but you can still socialize with the neighbors over in the next plots.




Grave of Emilia's late husband Vladimir





Each family in the clan brings food and we were all snacking on dishes brought by others.  It's also customary to share your food and drink with whoever comes by (strangers even) as you are honoring the deceased of that family.  It is considered impolite to refuse to drink with the family, so you learn to pace yourself when drinking alcoholic beverages, of which there is much.  The belief is that sharing the food with others is also spiritually feeding the deceased, hence the more food there is, the more bounty for their souls.


Besides the usual flowers laid over the grave site, bags of sweets (bomboane), a round bread loaf, placinta, and other foods are also placed there, along with a serving of wine and water.  Bags containing small gifts such as towels, handkerchiefs, and children's toys are also set down, which will be distributed to the appropriate guests and family members at the end.  Candles are inserted into the offerings and lit (until the breeze blew them out).

Dina lighting candles






Emilia poses with her stepson Vlad (left), cousin of her stephchildren Elena, stepdaughter Dina with Vlad's daughter Alina standing in front of her.  Emilia's sister-in-law Aurica and Aurica's son Vladimir as well as Dina's husband Maxim were also in attendance among others.


Tables overflowing with food











Priest Nicolae blessing offerings to deceased
Priests make the rounds of the cemetery to offer blessings for the offerings being laid out for the deceased.  The Balti cemetery is the largest in the city and several priests are dispatched to ensure sufficient coverage.  Priest Nicolae was in our section, appearing around 11:30 to provide blessings to those families who wanted them.  He chanted some verses at each gravesite, swung the censer over the tombs, and recited prayers for the dead.  Emilia flagged him down and he performed those rites for the dearly departed in their family plot.  I took some video, which you can check out here:
http://vimeo.com/94226273?email_id=Y2xpcF90cmFuc2NvZGVkfDZiYzZjNGZjMmM4NGI3OTdkN2UxOTdkODk5OTA3MGQxODA5fDI3NzM3MDI0fDEzOTk0MDUyNDN8NzcwMQ%3D%3D&utm_campaign=7701&utm_medium=clip-transcode_complete-finished-20120100&utm_source=email

That closes out the Easter holidays in Moldova for this year.  During May, offices closed on May 1 (Socialists' Labor Day) and many will be closed on May 9, Victory Day when the Nazis surrendered to Russia after WWII.

June brings the new crop of Peace Corps volunteers to Moldova, and as I'm a mentor to two of the newbies, I'm sure I'll have some interesting things to report.  It's difficult to believe that I've been in-country for almost a year, experienced all the seasons!  I empathize with the new group coming in, who are asking exactly the same kinds of questions that I and my fellow M28s asked.  Summer will be fun!

Poftim!
Barbara









Saturday, April 26, 2014

Paste (Easter) celebrations in the Eastern Orthodox way

In Moldova both Christmas and Easter are very big national holidays which are celebrated for more than just a day.  Because 95+% of the population is Eastern Orthodox, just about the entire country shuts down for these holidays.  I was looking forward to my first Paste here.

I spent an eventful 4-day weekend in Parcova, a small village in the raion (region) of Edinet about 55 km north of Balti.  My host "mom" Emilia grew up there, and her parents still live in the same house (over 50 years now).  Emilia invited me to spend the Paste (pah shtay) holidays with them and I was very enthusiastic to witness the traditional observances for this very holy of days.  Two days are observed, Paste Sunday itself and the Monday following.



We arrived Friday by noon at her parents', and Emilia immediately loaded up the refrigerator and stove with loads of prepared food dishes that she had cooked at home and transported there.  Her father Timofiu Turcan is a retired priest of the principal church in Parcova but still assists there.  Conveniently their house is right across the street from the cathedral.  Her mother Lidia tended the vegetable garden and home but her duties have diminished because farming is such a physically demanding endeavor. The house is charming but spartan, adorned with rows of beautiful red tulips in full bloom.  Both parents were very welcoming and caring individuals - they opened their hearts and home to me, just like Emilia did.


Home life
The house consists mainly of four rooms - off the entryway is the main salon, a smaller living room, a bedroom, and kitchen.  There is no indoor bathroom, neither is there an outdoor bathroom other than an outhouse. Like many other farm houses in the area built around the same time, cold water is retrieved from an outdoor faucet and heated when needed.  The rooms are extremely tidy (thanks to Emilia's visits).   A corner altar is situated in the main salon with the appropriate religious relics that you would expect a priest to have.
           
Sitting room

Hats for the priest












Colorful rug on wall












Preparing for Paste
The church is one of the more beautiful that I've seen in Moldova - it dominates the town and commands a good expanse of land.  The interior is adorned with multiple icon images and altars.





I was able to get inside the church before any activities started and took these photos.  They were preparing for Good Friday services which were going to start later that afternoon.

Returning to record the service, a procession was circling the church which commemorated Jesus' death on the cross and his entombment.


Emilia's father Timofiu is leading the small procession.  He has the most serene visage, and he actually stayed up all night on Easter morn but returned home for much needed rest about 5 AM. Although he's actually retired, he still helps out at the church when he can.





                                                                                  

      











Midnight Paste Service
The tradition is to attend church around midnight, and if you’re committed to the long haul, you stay throughout the night as the service continues with readings, incantations from the priests, chantings, and multitudinous signing of the cross from head to chest to right shoulder then left shoulder (opposite of Catholics), and even a few folks prostrating themselves and kissing the the ground before various icons. 

Emilia and I attended Paste midnight service for a couple of hours.  About 50 people were there, most standing since seating is not provided for all worshippers.  We happened to get seats, fortunately, and since I am a “senior”, it was perfectly acceptable.  We bought some candles, went up to various iconic images and I followed Emilia’s suit, lighting candles and placing them in the candle holder, bowing and signing the cross, and occasionally bending over the religious relic and kissing it.  A woman was reading from the holy book and every now and then the priest would come out from the back room, chant some verses, declare “Hristos a inviat!” (Christ has risen!), to which the parishioners would respond “Cu adeverat a inviat!” (Truly, he has risen!). 


Our food basket
We left the church about 1:30 AM with the services still continuing, and returned home to get a few hours of sleep, although once I’m up past my usual bedtime, it’s difficult for me to get to sleep, especially since I was also sleeping on the couch.  We arose around 5:00 AM, collected our food basket, and returned to the church to participate in the blessing of the food.  I was pleasantly surprised to see many more people (150 or so) who had arrived with their food gathering in a semi-circle in front of the church.  The night was cold but not frigid and there was no wind, and the stars were out – a serene, peaceful night.  People were chatting quietly but the mood was solemn.  Emilia’s brother Valeriu and his family gathered with us and we lit candles in our baskets.  It was a splendid sight, the row of people with their lit candles and food baskets gently lighting the silent night.  About ½ hour later, the priest came out, and more chanting and pronouncements were made.  Two men were holding a sheet, and two other boys were holding a collection box.  They passed along the line of people, the priest giving his blessings while the men collected portions of the food items in the sheet, and the boys collected money for the church.  Much of the food would be donated to the disadvantaged people in the community.  The final blessing came around once again, when the priest passed by the parishioners accompanied by a helper with a bucket of holy water.  Taking a large brush, the priest dipped it into the bucket and sprinkled the water on the baskets and the people.  Afterwards, everyone gathered their food baskets and returned home just as the sky was beginning to lighten up with the dawn breaking.  The first meal of the day comes from the blessed food from the basket.  People who had been fasting for 7 weeks (no meat, dairy, and fish) could now eat all they wanted of these foods, and indeed they did!
(Note: Unfortunately my camera was not functioning correctly during the midnight service and I couldn't retrieve the images that I took.  If I get it corrected, I'll post later :(  )



Scenes of Parcova
Parcova's casa de cultura and primarie

Beautifully ornate well


Foods
Moldovans have traditional food dishes that I have mentioned in the past which are eaten virtually at all celebrations whether it’s a religious holiday or a birthday.  There may be a new dish added to the mix, but usually the standby favorites are:  racitori (boiled chicken in aspic), salads (diced beets, potatoes, carrots, corn, peas, and other vegetables with mayonnaise; salted fish with a layer of julienne slices of potatoes and beets also with mayonnaise), sarmale (stuffed cabbage leaves), stuffed red and yellow peppers, pan-fried chicken fillets, pirjoale (ground chicken meatballs), vegetable platter, (tomatoes, cucumbers, radishes, pickles), stewed pork or lamb dish (lamb is traditional for Paste), and of course, bread.  For dessert, there is an abundance of prajitori (baked pastries coated with powdered sugar), napoleon layered cakes, and cookies.  A Paste specialty also is a type of bread similar to pannettone, which was very tasty. 
 
After sleeping for a few hours, the family dining cycle begins and continues throughout the day.  We went to Valeriu’s house for lunch where we ate and drank much of the same food above along with house cognac and wine.  After returning to our house, we ate once again but I couldn’t eat more than just a small plate.  Emilia was preparing a few more dishes for the next day’s meal where Valeriu’s family in turn would be feasting at the parents’ house! 


One interesting tradition is “bumping” eggs.  Moldovans do dye eggs for Paste, but they stick with the color red, and I helped Emilia dye 30 eggs using the eggs from their own chickens, of course.  This dye is particularly deep red.  Unlike the American approach, water is boiled with the red dye, and the raw eggs are cooked in the dyed water.  On Easter day, guests take an egg and each takes turns to bump the other’s egg with the tip.  Whosever egg breaks, turns it over to the winner.  (Yes, my egg got cracked.) 

Bumping eggs
                                                               

Emilia and her wonderful, gentle parents.

I returned to Balti very satisfied with my first-hand experience of a Moldovan Paste.  One good outcome from my stay was that I had to speak more Romanian since no one spoke English.  I was able to get by and answered questions from the various family members whocould understand me reasonably well.  That was doubly satisfying!

This coming weekend is Memorial Easter where families commemorate their deceased loved ones with religious rites and feasts in the cemetery.   Maybe I'll have a story to share in my next blog.....

Noroc!